I’m your late-night bestie, your no-bullshit space-holder, your private guide through the wild, weird, and wonderful world of sex, desires, kinks, fantasies and being human. Not a coach. Not a therapist. I’m your confidante; the one you tell the truth to when you’re ready to name it.
I hold space — honest, playful, and judgment-free — for the parts of you that usually get silenced, swallowed, or edited down. Whether you’re in a dry spell, stuck in a pattern, curious about kink, or carrying a fantasy you’ve never said out loud — this is where it gets to breathe. I bring years of experience, sharp insight, and a whole lot of heart. This is real-time, real-talk, one-on-one work — no fixing, no jargon, just truth, tenderness, and the occasional very good question. Come as you are. I'll meet you there.
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A confidante is someone you trust with your deepest secrets; those messy, sexy, yearning truths. And I’m not talking about a coach or therapist. Instead, I hold space. I listen, deeply. I witness you. And I hold nothing back.
(And I Don’t Want to Be One to You). Let’s be clear — I’m not here to diagnose, treat, or therapize you. I’m not a therapist, and I don’t pretend to be one. What I am is something else entirely: a confidante, a sounding board, a soft space where your thoughts can land without judgment or analysis.
I’m an author of erotic fiction, a TEDx speaker, and podcaster. I'm a mother, wife and bisexual woman. I’ve made a career out of turning shame into stories; and stories into liberation. Ready to explore yours?
Think of this as your permission slip. A space where you can speak freely, laugh loudly, cry quietly, get turned on, get honest; whatever comes up, it’s welcome here. You’ve got questions. Good. (You’re probably not the only one.)
A real conversation — no worksheets, no judgment, no weird performance energy.
A soft, sacred space — where your stories, questions, and fantasies are met with warmth and curiosity.
Gentle guidance — I’ll reflect, ask questions, and if needed, offer resources or referrals.
Deep listening — I see you. All of you. And I’ll never ask you to be less.
If you’re here, something is already stirring. Maybe a question. Maybe a curiosity. Maybe a quiet yes you’ve been afraid to name.
There is nothing wrong with you. You weren’t taught how to talk about desire. You weren’t shown how to ask for what you want, or how to sit with your own shame. But you can learn. And it’s not too late.
You don’t need to be confident. You don’t need to be clear. You just need to show up — curious, messy, tender, unsure. That’s more than enough.
And if your body is buzzing, your heart is aching, or you’re still reading this far down the page?
That’s your sign.
